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By Whitney Ullman
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It’s that time of year when 
we are joyous about having days off, but at the same time dreading the almost forced family time. 


Most of us would love to take a holiday vacation, get away from our daily routines and experience new sights and cultures, but during this time of year we are stuck in holiday-related traffic and stressing out about superficial things. 


Don’t lose sight of the fact that although it’s tough to get along with everyone, especially the odd family members that you just can’t relate to no matter what you do, that you are spending time together because deep down it is a “ritual of reassurance,” as the quote goes by Phillip Andrew Adams. (“To many people holidays are not voyages of discovery, but a ritual of reassurance.”) 


You are part of something whole, whether you like it or not. 


It’s always important to accept those who you don’t understand because we can’t change others, we can only control our own thoughts and choices. Enjoy your time with your family elders because that facet of the holidays gets overlooked too often. I can’t tell you how many times I hear my grandparents complain that they don’t ever hear from certain family members. And make an impact on the young ones because they are very impressionable. Give them wisdom and no matter what your financial situation, make them feel rich from love and respect. 


And, of course, work on yourself. It’s easy for me to tell you what you should do, and easy for you to see what’s wrong with others, but during this time of year it’s usually an eye opener. We reflect on all that we have accomplished, or didn’t accomplish and think about our goals for the next year. 


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